10 things you must insist in your life 人生一定要坚持的十件事

10 things you must insist in your life.
1. Keep smiling
Life is bitter, if it is always worried, it should be tortured. If we are facing the disturbances of life with a smile, it’s no big deal.

2. Be kind
One of the most beautiful compensations in life is that when people sincerely help others, they also help themselves.

3. Be grateful
Be grateful to everyone you meet, and to thank them for everything they taught us. Grateful for the parents’ nurturing, support from friends and loved from your lover as well.

4. Be tolerant
A real wise men often know how to forgive others. Being able to accept one another’s differences can have a positive effect on one’s well-being. Being tolerant removes one’s self-imposed barriers and allows one to think more broadly and enjoy greater inner peace. Tolerance leads to less stress and greater happiness in the overall community.

5. Keep a sense of proportion
Whether it is socializing with people or being at work, we should always keep a sense of proportion and it is a sign of a person’s maturity.

6. Keep thinking
Whether facing sudden natural disasters or man-made disasters, or dealing with all kinds of conflicts and conflicts with work life, we should always remain sober-minded, always be able to think independently, and stick to our principles and positions.

7. Maintain self-discipline
Self-control is the instinct of the strong. When you master self-discipline, you will find that you are able to accomplish your goals, in every area of your life.

8. Keep the enthusiasm
Enthusiasm is a powerful motivator when it’s sincere. It’s a spirit that inspires us to move forward positively in a direction of our own choosing. Keep in mind that everyday tasks would become easier and more enjoyable when done with enthusiasm.

9. Keep an open mind
Being open-minded can be really tough sometimes. Most of us are brought up with a set of beliefs and values and, throughout our lives, tend to surround ourselves with people who share the same values and beliefs. Therefore, it can be difficult when we're faced with ideas that challenge our own and, though we may wish to be open-minded, we may struggle with the act of it from time to time.

10. Be yourself
Each one of us is unique and we have all rights to protect our individuality. The greatest gift that you can give to the world and to yourself is- ‘being yourself’. Don’t be a people pleaser as it is not worth it. When I say- don’t be a people pleaser, that doesn’t mean acting against people or being rude to them, it’s just not acting or behaving the way people want, just to please them.

人生一定要坚持的十件事
1.保持微笑
人生本多苦涩，若还总是愁眉紧锁，那该有多折磨。很多时候面对生活的纷纷扰扰，笑一笑，就没什么大不了。

2.保持善良
人生最美丽的补偿之一，就是人们真诚地帮助别人之后，同时也帮助了自己。

3.保持感恩
要感恩遇见的每一个人，更感恩他们教会我们的每一件事。
感恩父母的养育之恩，此生必要报偿；
感恩朋友的扶持之恩，有来也要有往；
感恩爱人的携手之恩，相伴一生到老。

4.保持宽容
真正的智者，往往都懂得宽恕他人之过。
待人宽一分是福，利人是利己的根基。懂得原谅他人，其实也是放过自己。
更何况，心多宽一寸，路便宽一丈，学会宽容，不是成长的代价，而是成长本身。

5.保持分寸
无论是与人交往，还是在工作当中，拿捏好恰当的分寸，是一个人成熟的标志。
懂分寸，知进退，才能游刃有余地过好余生。

6. 保持思考
无论是面对突如其来的天灾人祸，还是处理工作生活中的种种矛盾冲突，我们都应保持清醒的头脑，始终能够独立地去思考，坚守自己的原则和立场。永远都不要放弃独立思考的能力，永远都要在保持思考的路上。

7. 保持自律
自我控制，是强者的本能。通往成功的路，走上去的每一步，背后都是一复一日的坚守。能自律者，方享自由，才得成功。

8. 保持热情
若无对生活毫无激情，青春年少也不过迷惘度日；若对生活饱含热情，年过百岁也依旧朝气蓬勃。走过人生一半的路，或许你的年少意气早被消磨殆尽，但依旧请你整理好心情，重拾起热情。心中的火不熄，才能将日子过得风生水起。
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9. 保持豁达
人生不如意之事十之八九，若件件都要在乎，处处都要在意，那岂不是要累死自己？有句诗写得好：“若无闲事挂心头，便是人间好时节。”该放的放下，该忘的忘记，该抛的抛弃，才能够一身轻松地上路，安享自己的人生。

10.保持自我
人这一生，其实很多时候都活在别人的眼里。小时父母盼我们乖巧不淘气，少时老师盼我们认真去学习，成年后我们又被期许事业有成、婚姻和睦。可那些，不过是别人的期待而已。每个人，都只活这一次，要学会好好爱自己，闯出自己想要的一番天地。